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One of the benefits of being a woman is a keen sense of intuition. However, when it comes to dating, is it okay to rely on your gut instinct about a man, even if your sense is he's not relationship material after talking to him for under an hour?
In this video, Dating Coach, Matchmaker, Relationship Expert and Radio Show Host Jasbina Ahluwalia says that in order to determine whether you're too quick to judge the guys you date, you should consider three things.
First, how well do you think a guy knows you after a first date? After all, really getting to know someone takes time.
Second, Jasbina says, "instant chemistry is not always the best indication of long term compatibility."
Want to know the third thing Jasbina wants you to think about? Check out the video and find out.
As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, this question comes up frequently.
Three things to keep in mind.
1 From your experience with first dates, how well do you think each guy actually knows you after just the first date? It can be difficult to truly know another multi-dimensional person after just a single date. The process of getting to know someone can be analogized to peeling back the many layers of an onion.
2 Instant chemistry may not be as great a tell-tale sign of potential as you might think. At times, instant chemistry may be based on no more than repeating patterns from your past, some of which will not serve you well in the long-term.
3 Also keep in mind that some guys who may be great partner material are just not as great daters. On extreme ends of the continuum, a player with a lot of dating practice, motivated to tell you exactly what you want to hear, may very well make a better first impression than a less experienced commitment minded guy who may just be nervous during a first interaction.
Bottom line is that you may be missing out on some great guys by limiting your assessment of a guy's potential exclusively to what you learn during your first interaction
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