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It’s pretty well accepted that confidence is an attractive quality in a man. But do MEN think confident women are attractive? This video explains it.
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Unfortunately, “societies” impression of what men want in a woman, is I’d say slightly different.
Ask a guy what he wants, and you might get
Boobs, boobs, ASS, boobs, boobs, Ummm, I like boobies.
So what happens? As a society we just assume that men are these simple creatures who only go for physical looks.
We’ve all heard it before – sexual attraction for men is more visual, sexual attraction for women is more emotional
Women like confident men
And men like hot women
Simple and easy right?
Very very wrong.
If you’re looking to meet a confident man – then pay close attention to this video.
Now, a confident man might try to date a physically attractive woman just for her looks, but if she’s not confident – , very quickly, he’ll lose interest. The relationship will quickly be a mismatch.
Confident guys who are looking for a long term relationship will also look at a woman’s confidence level as being the #1 critical component to long term compatibility.
Whereas if you think about it, insecure guys will forever JUST be going for beautiful women for one reason: validation
They believe that if they finally date an attractive woman – it will prove to the world that they are valuable.
So yes, confidence is critical for women as well – and if you want to attract a confident man, this is something you need to work on. And don’t do it to meet a man, do it for yourself.
Now for those of you skeptics who say, men don’t love confident women, maybe your perception of what confidence means, might be a little off.
Confidence simply means that you are self assured in your own ability and power as a woman. And when a woman is dating, confidence means that she believes wholeheartedly that she’s an attractive, high value woman. Basically, that she’s a GREAT catch.
But I think people say that men don’t like confident women – because some women display confidence the same way men do. So let me correct this for you a little bit.
You can be confident without being dominant. Sure, maybe you’re the CEO of a major company and are dominant in the workplace, but when it comes to dating – allow a man to be a man. Have the confidence to take a step back and let him lead for once. I know it can be hard, but in order to have the ying, you must have the yang. The only other option is to date a beta male and then you can be the yang, and he can be the ying? Your choice .
You can be confident and be vulnerable– There are a lot of strong successful independent women out there who find it very difficult to open up to a man. Remember, it takes confidence to get a view behind the curtains – don’t feel as if you need to always display strength and independence. Even confident people have insecurities – the difference is that confident people aren’t afraid to express them – whereas insecure people try to hide them or overcompensate for them.
And lastly, You can be confident without being masculine. Allowing your feminine presence to shine a bit also requires the same amount of confidence as it takes a man to release his maculininty. Speak slowly, maintain a feminine voice tonality, wear a cute dress, softly touch him on the arm when he does something you approve of.
All is this is what I call, sexy confidence – and that’s why I started sexy confidence.com. I believe this is the main ingredient to being an attractive woman.
And if you’re watching this today and thinking to yourself, I’m not confident – just remember, becoming more confident is an ongoing process. No one, and I mean no one is confident all of the time with dating.
Learn as much as you can by watching videos like this, and get out there and practice it. You might have some days where you feel great, and you might have some days when you feel down – but never, never let a man – or woman tell you that confidence isn’t sexy.
Because if they do – I guarantee that they’re projecting their insecurities on you.
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